New to this whole thing...

[thisismyusername]

I need some tips on how to dominate, or humiliate my boyfriend.
I am kind of insecure about our sexual relationship and I know that his ex girlfriend was very dominant and his "mistress", and I want to please him in any way possible.

If you guys could tell me some easy ways to start trying this out; I personally don't see the enjoyment in this but I love my boyfriend and want to make him happy in any way possible.

I need something reasonable to start out with.

He told me he wanted me to torture him, dominate him, and humiliate him.

Anything helps. I'm lost.

Thanks guys.

[DanniPandemos]

I'm not sure it's really going to work for either of you if you don't get any enjoyment out of it, but you might find some things you enjoy once you start exploring it.

There are so many different activities and practices in BDSM that nobody can really tell you what to do, but you need to get your boyfriend to be more specific about what turns him on and go from there.

Perhaps the two of you could sit down at the computer and look at some free BDSM clips. You could then try recreating clips that appeal. There are lots of sites out there where you can find such clips.

Above all though, think about the safety of anything you do before you do it.