Living the sub life

[made2serve]

I wonder how many of the sub men on this and other sites are married and like me live in a vanilla relationship. And how many make any effort to bring a little submission into their lives.
One of the most important "and erotic" feelings i associate with submission is the feeling that i am being taken for granted.

As a submissive living vanilla it's strange to say, but the best thing that has happened to me in years was being retired early fthrough bad health.
It has given me the opportunity to live out my submissive fantasy in my own home, albeit alone, but i must admit that as a second choice to the real thing it is wonderful.

Since my enforced retirement i have taken over all the housework. including cooking, cleaning, washing, ironing, and anything else i can think of. My wife thinks she has a new husband, and seldom lifts a finger anymore as i am always on hand to make tea, coffee, or fetch anything she wants.

My new found voluntary submission is becoming even better as she now just expects these things to be done.

So a message to all you subs out there who live in vanilla relationship.

Don't despair. it's easy to become a slave. But the trick is not to tell the wife.

[rawbeef2009]

i understand what you mean but do you think if you were open with her she would leave you ?even if all you wanted to was kneel at her side and have foot play now and then . the only thing i found out in a realition ship like this is after a wile she notices you may TOP from the Bottom then it is all about your self and then you may be in danger of loosing her respect for you or in most cases. please dont take my question as being rude .

[houseboy]

I too live that similar role, but both of us still work full time. However it is wonderful when my wife arrives home, to have a drink waiting for Her, to be expected to take Her coat and hang it up. And of course to have slippers ready and take her shoes off.

Over the weekend I always make apoint of cleaning any shoes or boots she has worn during that week. And on one wonderful occasion when Her Mother visited had me clean her shoes too. Happy days!:happy:

[Dominiva]

I wonder how many of the sub men on this and other sites are married and like me live in a vanilla relationship. And how many make any effort to bring a little submission into their lives.
... Don't despair. It's easy to become a slave. But the trick is not to tell the wife.

My husband got opened with me recently! We have been married for a year now. I am happy, and so is he because we find out that we share the similar or same BDSM needs. :D

[Razim]

this may sound harsh but I will never marry a woman that doesn't play domination games with me.
all of my previous girl friends were playful about it or else I just had no interest in them, sexually that is.

can you be with someone you are not attractive to ? does she want to be with you if you are not attracted to her ?

sorry to say that I only go on with the types that gives me the hots for them - just like any guy.

[Dr JR]

I have been submissive to my Mistress/wife for many years. What started out as foreplay for our sexual relations has transitioned into a serious Mistress/slave relationship. First, you have to understand that it took years to develop to the point where she sees me as her slave, not her husband. In the privacy of our home (no children at home) she is in complete control. In public we maintain the appearance of a "normal" husband and wife. I grovel at her feet every day, licking her shoes and boots before she leaves for work each day and greetig her, in the foyer, in the same manner when she returns. I am a retired college professor so I have much free time to be her domestic slave. She continues to run a successfrul real estate business. it works for us. This relationship is not for all married couples.

[slaveofGoddessClub]

Shopping with Supreme Goddess La Reigna of Goddess Club
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As a 24/7 slave males get the chance of assisting Supreme Goddess La Reigna of Goddess Club in HER shopping and
it requires special kind of training for male slaves how to behave in public as many may not accept this in public.
First slaves are not kept naked in public and they get chance to wear some torn old clothes but it is always kept
in mind that the clothes they wear and when with Supreme Goddess La Reigna of Goddess Club it should be obvious
that the male is servant of Supreme Goddess La Reigna of Goddess Club. Also male should wear chastity device under
pants as Supreme Goddess La Reigna of Goddess Club does not HEr slave to get excited and have an errection in public.
Few things should be always taken care of by male slaves and they should always keep in mind.

Slave should always open car doors for Supreme Goddess La Reigna of Goddess Club. Inside the car the slave should
bend and lie on floor and never on seat. His face should be placed before the honoured FEET of Supreme Goddess La Reigna
of Goddess Club. After boarding down the slave should open the door for Supreme Goddess La Reigna of Goddess Club.
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Supreme Goddess La Reigna of Goddess Club always looks gorgeous but dresses should always match to HER category as
SHE is the ruler of the planet. Slave should assist in taking on the shoes when Supreme Goddess La Reigna of Goddess Club
wants to buy the shoes. During any supper in some restaurant in the middle of shopping slave should always stand
like a waiter. Ideal case would be kneeling below table but in front of public may not look good so should be standing
beside HER. Last but not the least it is slave's responsibility to use his credit card for the whole shopping
as he should know that he is born to make life comfortable for Supreme Goddess La Reigna of Goddess Club.

i worship all GODDESSES OF GODDESS CLUB
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slave r.t.
(Worshipper and slave of Supreme Goddess La Reigna of Goddess Club)

[slaveofGoddessClub]

Why men want to be slave of Supreme Goddess La Reigna of Goddess Club
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i worship all GODDESSES OF GODDESS CLUB
http://www.goddessclub.com/home.html
slave r.t
(Worshipper and slave of Supreme Goddess La Reigna of Goddess Club)