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raisedfemdom
07-30-2010, 02:34 AM
Dear All:
I'm in my mid fifties and have been married to a wonderful wife for thirty years, most of that in a femdom role. I believe that my upbringing in the late fifties and early sixties made this relationship possible. My Mother and three other married friends from her college days shared a small vacation campsite with a couple of cabins in a very secluded area. It was very primitive with just electric, and bathrooms. There was a nearby lake and plenty for us kids to do. Our Dads only made it up for a few weekends, while we stayed the entire summer. There was a large black water tank used for showering that was heated just by the sun, so we were always told not to waste it. Our sisters would share the shower,but the boys, I guess because we were younger, were each taken in and showered with one of the mothers. It was fast, get wet, soap up and rinse off. This was the first time I ever saw a woman naked. This went on each summer, we never showered with our own mother, always someone elses. I do remember as we got older, we boys would get together to compare notes as to which he liked to shower with or what they liked about each mother. It was then that it struck me that they each had seen my mother naked but I never did. I know in todays world it may sound perverted to some, but things were much different fifty years ago.

raisedfemdom
09-18-2010, 06:50 AM
After many e-mails questions, let me say that, yes I married a daughter of one of the moms that I showered with as a young boy. My mother's friends were very progressive for that time and my mother-in-law raised my wife with this type of lifestyle in mind. I am glad that she did and that my wife and I live the way we do.

raisedfemdom
11-04-2010, 07:01 AM
Guess I should explain my situation further from questions I have received. First, my wife never with holds sex as punishment. She actually finds that I am more "even keeled" when she has me masturbate on a daily basis. I am not allowed to on my own, only at her order and with her present. Believe it or not, I do sometimes yurn for some privacy. We have two grown daughters who are now married. As they were growing up, my wife made it a priorty for them to see me naked. She thought it was good to see me somewhat humiliated and embarrassed, but also to start them on a course to femdomism. She thought it fun to have me have semi or total erections,sometimes. To her it was sex-ed and femdom all in one. It never went past the nudism. but that was enough.
I would rather answer any other questions by e-mail.So if you have any feel free to contact me!

raisedfemdom
02-09-2011, 06:07 AM
My name is Lorraine, and I find that most of the e-mails that my husband received from his post seems to be from men that feel envy. I have replied to a few Doms with questions about our relationship, but it seems many men really crave a femdom lifestyle. My mother was always treated with respect by my father and my younger brother. My mother, my sister, and I always had the upmost privacy, but as for my father and my brother, they more or less had very little. It was very common to have my parent's bedroom door open while my father undressed or showered. My mother would sometimes call us in to discuss lessons ( we were home schooled), while this took place. My brother, when he came in from a day of playing, would get undressed in the mud room where the washer was, and was naked till he got to his room.So my sister and I were over the nudity thing early and were curious about other things. When we were at our summer vacation spot with the other kids, we would sneak out of our cabin and go peek in the windows of the adults. We would only do this on weekends when one or two of the fathers made the long drive up. That was when we witnessed the sexual side of these relationships. This was so intrigueing to us in our teenage years that we both ended up marrying submissive men who could fill that role. This was many years ago and public values may have changed, but from the e-mails I have read, I still see a big interest in this lifestyle.
Lorraine, if you need any advice-cetwod@aol.com

worldholder
04-03-2011, 09:32 PM
As they were growing up, my wife made it a priorty for them to see me naked. She thought it was good to see me somewhat humiliated and embarrassed, but also to start them on a course to femdomism.It was very common to have my parent's bedroom door open while my father undressed or showered. My mother would sometimes call us in to discuss lessons ( we were home schooled), while this took place. My brother, when he came in from a day of playing, would get undressed in the mud room where the washer was, and was naked till he got to his room.So my sister and

raisedfemdom
04-26-2011, 11:46 PM
an update, my wife"s mother past away acouple of months ago. We were going through her house when we came across old pictures of her with family members. They were professionally done.One set was with my late mother-in law, my wife and two daughters, posing naked. My Daughters were very young at the time, the oldest looked to be about four. They were like normal family portaits but they were all naked. My wife said she had forgotten about them, she told me her mother wanted them done because other friends of hers were doing the same. She said at the time she didn"t see any harm.I found others of just my mother-in law and my daughters.They had to be taken when we would let they visit for a couple of weeks each summer. Each year there five or six poses of my daughters with her, continueing into their teen years. There was another set of her with my nephew, only in these she wore a swimsuit, while he was naked. That series went up to when he was twelve( there was a date on the back). Even though they were very innocent looking pictures, the last couple of years showed my nephew posing with her while both flaccid and erect. I can only assume that my sister-in-law was having her mother start him on the road to femdom,as my mother did with me.

roshigoo
07-07-2011, 02:05 AM
Successful via snail mail would grow revenues exponentially on line, but I am not technical and will send sample.